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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

★6 things to never tell your girl about your ex★

If you actually mentioned these things about your ex to your current girl, you can kiss her goodbye. But don’t forget to run for cover first.

1) That she was wild and crazy (then raise your eyebrow and say “you know what I mean”). If you say this, it’s as good as over. You know the term, ‘gentlemen never kiss and tell’. Well, need I say more?

2) That she worked in a lingerie store and got a 50% discount. By doing this, you’re only going to paint an ugly picture in your current girl’s head. And we don’t wanna do that now do we?

3) For heaven’s sake, do not tell her that your folks loved her. This is one of the toughest things for a girl to do, and if yours hasn’t met the parents yet or worse, if they don’t like her, you’ll just be rubbing it in her face.

4) If you tell your current girl that your ex broke your heart, it’ll just make her feel you’re not over her yet. It also shows how much you still think about the past, and that you may be afraid to move on.

5) Don’t tell your girl about the ‘awesome’ vacation you took with your ex. Instead of doing fun things with your current, you’re talking bout the stuff you did with your ex; and that aint happening

6) And last, never EVER correct her saying ‘My ex did it that way’. This is the last straw, and if you commit this sin, you will be banished from you current lover’s castle for good.

Basically, if you talk about your ex constantly, your current beau will see it as a total turnoff. Instead of trying to make her feel confident, you will only be messing her mind up, making her feel insecure. So there you have it!

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★4 break up warning signs★


We all know when a relationship is going downhill, we brace ourselves for the worst and hope things stay intact. There’s no doubt that being shown the door sucks, and it’s even worse when you think that the person you cared about actually thinks he/she is better off without you.

If you have been dumped before, I do not need to go into details about how much that hurt. I remember countless visits to Baskin Robbins, I think I moved into the freezer and stayed there till they had to forcefully send me home.

Today, we’re going to help you figure out those signs that your relationship is headed towards a break up so that when it eventually does happen, it isnt so hard, and you’re prepared.

And although there are a million signs that should alert you, let’s take 3-4 of the easiest ones.

Break-Up Warning #1: Your other half starts distancing themselves physically and emotionally.
The fact that you seem to be getting less time from your partner either way is clearly a warning signal, in most cases. More so, when they start missing your regular “couple” activities. This is easier to distinguish that the emotional distancing. That can be killer. That’s a sure sure “falling out of love” signal. Communication changes, they start avoiding confrontation. Relationship investment just flew out the window. Time for you to retract.

Breakup Warning #2: You notice that their daily routing changes.
I still remember n one of my past relationships, when I realized that the activities the boy and I used to do as a couple, I was then doing it alone. In my head, I figured he had work and was usually busy, until I bumped into him at the skating rink with a bunch of his friends.
Sometimes, the schedule change is genuine, but if it’s constant and they arent apologetic about it, then there is something brewing there. Also watch out for a new group of friends they may have “suddenly” acquired.


Breakup Warning #3: The two of you fight more often than not.
Which relationship doesn’t have fights? Isn’t the making up awesome? Constant fighting can be an issue though. A warning that the end is near. They are trying to push you over the edge so as not to be the one to dump so that they can look like “the good guy.”
Also absolute no fighting can mean that your partner has resolved to not being that emotionally involved in the relationship either! If you try to broach the topic and they quick to withdraw, it shows sign of frustration or uncaring nature towards the relationship.

Breakup Warning #4: Intimacy has dropped to an all-time low
When he stops kissing you goodbye in the mornings, or hardly touches you affectionately anymore, you need to sit up and take stock. Not necessarily are we talking about sex here. That can vary over different periods of time. But if they have stopped making advances altogether, there must be something wrong. Even worse if you initiate it and they push you away making excuses.

So with those 4 points in mind, you’ll be able to see the tiny cracks appear and resolve it before it breaks, else prepare yourself for a separation. Being able to spot them early on ensures that you will know how to handle the situation.


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★love at first sight★


There is a natural idealism attached to the thought of meeting someone and having them hitting enough emotional triggers immediately to just know. Love at first sight.
Falling in love at first sight is amazing when it happens because, for some inexplicable reason, it seems to last longer than the average relationship. Possibly because love unfolds gradually in such circumstances rather than burdening it with hopes and expectations. Feelings are usually passionate and exciting, there is more of motivation to see where the attraction leads.

Although it is possible to start off a relation in this way, it often takes work and dedication to keep t going. But who are we individually to define what love is. Once we can move beyond the initial stomach butterflies and excitement and learn to “love” that person, flaws included, that is where the relationship begins. We must strive to find the delights in each others personalities.


Everybody’s opinion on Love at First Sight may defer, and each has the equal right to exist because when it comes to love and being in love, not even scientists can figure that out.

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★tips for a gud relationship★



How do we make it work in a society that has a high rate of failed relationships.

Tips for a healthy and happy relationship:

Communication is the most important key to good relationship. What is effective communication? Speak to your partner just like you would talk to a friend who you have know all your life. Speak honestly but very tactfully. If you thing talking isn’t going to work write it down and give it to him or her in a note. Keep it brief and directly to the point. Act as if you are giving someone instructions. Don’t ever yell or use language that is inappropriate.

If your partner has told you something unpleasant about their pass, never bring it up. Remember this person trusted you enough to open up to you in a special way. Don’t make them feel as though they made a mistake and that you’re not trustworthy. It will make the relationship go downhill very quick.

When you get angry whatever works to calm you down use it just as if your job depended on it. When you think about it a relationship requires a sense of responsibility to conduct yourself appropriately. If you can control yourself at work because you know what going to happen if you don’t pretend your at work. Control can make or break a situation in a relationship without a doubt.

Try doing something fun together at least twice a month and don’t forget to compliment each other. Don’t focus on your partner’s negatives boost up the positives and you’ll see them work on the negatives on their own. People already know what their faults are they don’t need anyone to tell them.

Don’t go to a third party for advice unless this person has been a long term relationship that has worked. You don’t need advice from someone who doesn’t know how to make their own relationships work out well. Be careful family members are good to give advice but they won’t take advice from you about their own failing relationships.



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★chords of yaara hinithun v ma★

{c:chorus}

{soc}
[G]yaaraa hinithun v[D]eema,hurev[C]eyne hey mih[G]en
[G]yaaraa beynun v[D]eema,dhuruv[C]aane hey ma [G]dhen
[Am]veemaa naah[D]aashey keevve [G]hey,adhi
[Am]noonee nubun[D]aashey noonek[G]ey
{eoc}

{c:chorus}

[Am]maamaluge meeru [G]vas thakun, [C]maazee handhaan va[G]nee
[Am]loabee ge inthi[G]zaaruga,[C]mi hihiyaalu aavanee
[Am]naahaashey [G]keevvehey,nubu[Am]naashey [G]noonekey
[Am]hiy-ves dhineem[D]ey

{c:chorus x 2}

[Am]kairin kalaa bal[G]aalumun,[C]neyngeyhe veego[G]thei
[Am]sirrei bunan handh[G]aanvefa,dh[C]oo bandhuvee mag[G]ey
[Am]naahaashey [G]keevvehey,nubu[Am]naashey [G]noonekey
[Am]hiy-ves dhineem[D]ey

{c:chorus}

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★chords of dhonkamana★

intro - C F G C F G
(strum the chords lightly)

C
dhon kamana feneythoa
C
rashutherey ulhefymey
F C
fennaaneybaa libeyneybaa
C
dhon kamana feneythoa
C
rashutherey ulhefymey
F C
fennaaneybaa libeyneybaa
G F
thee magey raanee ey
G F C
hih edhey malikaaey fennaanebaa
C
libeyneybaa


C
vilaathah nookuraashey
C F
udumathin fehi kuraashe namaves
C
mivaa loebbeh badhaleh nuvaaney
C
loabivey inthihaa
C F
loabivey haadhahaa nethumun
C
vedhaaney fanaa dhuiniyain vedhaaney
G F
thee magey raanee ey
G F C
hih edhey malikaaey fennaanebaa
C
libeyneybaa
C
libeynebaa


C
dhon kamana feneythoa
C
rashutherey ulhefymey
F C
fennaaneybaa libeyneybaa
C
dhon kamana feneythoa
C
rashutherey ulhefymey
F C
fennaaneybaa libeyneybaa
G F
thee magey raanee ey
G F C
hih edhey malikaaey fennaanebaa
C
libeyneybaa
C
libeyneybaa
C
libeyneybaa
C F
libeyneybaa

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★chords of dhene vmey gislaa roe roefaa ★

[CHORUS]
Am
Dhenneveemey gislaa roe roe faa.
G
aashigaa ey loabin annaashey.
Dm Am
vee loabin maruvaan hey?
Dm Am
vee loabin maruvaan hey?

Am
Dhenneveemey gislaa roe roe faa...

Am G
Bunebalaashey! mithuraa edhevey gothei,
Dm Am
beynumiyya, hithugaa vaa haa gothei.
G
loabing koh dheynamey!
Am
ufalun koh dheynamey!

[CHORUS]

Am
Dhenneveemey gislaa roe roe faa...

Am G
vaudhuveemey, umurah ekugaa ulhen
Dm Am
mee thedhei kan aharen dhakkaanamey.
G
mikamah ruhifaanu hey?
Am
noonee maruvaanamey!

[CHORUS]

Am
Dhenneveemey gislaa roe roe faa...



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★chords of vaaneyhe dhuniyeygaa★

C                          Am
vaaneyhe dhiniyeygaa thiya fadha fari nala malei
G C
dheevaana kollee magey, thiya hinithun vumey
C Am
maazee vi loabeege rey rey, ehandhaan vumun
G C
beynun vanee miyadhuves, eufaaveri kamey


F C
maafah edhen mulhi kaunu heki koffaa mirey
F C
loabeega kurevunu haa kushah eki rey
Am F
heelaafa bunelaa loabi mavamey,
Am G C
umurah ekeegaa vaanamey, magey loabivaa.

vaaneyhe dhiniyeygaa thiya fadha fari nala malei
dheevaana kollee magey, thiya hinithun vumey
maazee vi loabeege rey rey, ehandhaan vumun
beynun vanee miyadhuves, eufaaveri kamey

Oagaa velaafa bosdhee hadhaathee hiy uthuri ara-ey
Shaahee pareezaadhei hen mihithugaa ranikan kuraa shey
hibakommadheefin mulhi hiy mi-jaanaa,
kulunaai loabaa, agalah thiee hama evvana ey.

vaaneyhe dhiniyeygaa thiya fadha fari nala malei
dheevaana kollee magey, thiya hinithun vumey
maazee vi loabeege rey rey, ehandhaan vumun
beynun vanee miyadhuves, eufaaveri kamey



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★ chords of hithuge gilan(ali rameex and ibrahim rameex)★

INTRO plucking C G/B C G/B ...

C G
Hithugaa Vaa Handhaaneh Fohevey Hey? Noonekey
C G Am
Ithubaaraa Huvaa Thah Nethuneemaa Gislanee


F G
Loabi Veemaa Vaudhu Veemey
C
Eyge Fahugaa Kehi Dhinee
F G
Beywafaa Vee, Haadha Dhera Ey
C
Neygi Huttaa Badhalu Vee



C G
Hithugaa Vaa Handhaaneh Fohevey Hey? Noonekey
C G Am
Ithubaaraa Huvaa Thah Nethuneemaa Gislanee


F G
Loabi Veemaa Vaudhu Veemey
C
Eyge Fahugaa Kehi Dhinee
F G
Beywafaa Vee, Haadha Dhera Ey
C F
Neygi Huttaa Badhalu Vee
G Am C G F
Heekuree Hey Dhaane Hen, Dhashuvaan
G C
Fasbaigaa Eligen Roanehey


(SOLO)

C G
Aniyaa Dhee Hedheemey Badhunaamey Adhuvanee
C G Am
Umurah Dhen Salaamey Rulhiveemaa Foohivee


F G
Loabi Veemaa Vaudhu Veemey
C
Eyge Fahugaa Kehi Dhinee
F G
Beywafaa Vee, Haadha Dhera Ey
C F
Neygi Huttaa Badhalu Vee


(SOME CHEESEY ENGLISH STUFF
YEAAA YOU TELL THAT BITCH!!)
.................... F


G Am C G F
Heekuree Hey Dhaane Hen, Dhashuvaan
G C Am
Fasbaigaa Eligen Roanehey
F G
Loabi Veemaa Vaudhu Veemey
C
Eyge Fahugaa Kehi Dhinee
F G
Beywafaa Vee, Haadha Dhera Ey
C
Neygi Huttaa Badhalu Vee


(WAIL THE CHORUS OVER A FEW TIMES)




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